usbredir: assertion failure after suspend/resume when stopped
Description of problem:
Accessing a USB smart card ([Yubikey 5 NFC](https://www.yubico.com/product/yubikey-5-nfc/)) from the guest after host suspend/resume while the guest is stopped and the device is redirected causes QEMU to crash with "Segmentation fault" (with master) or the assertion failure (with Debian 1:6.1+dfsg-5):

    qemu-system-x86_64: ../../hw/usb/core.c:470: usb_packet_complete_one: Assertion `p->stream || QTAILQ_FIRST(&ep->queue) == p' failed.
Steps to reproduce:
1. Run `qemu-system-x86_64` with command line listed above.
2. Run `remote-viewer spice://localhost:3001` in another terminal.
3. Redirect the smart card to the guest in remote-viewer.
4. Run `gpg --card-status` in the guest.
5. Run `stop` in the QEMU monitor.
6. Run `rtcwake --mode mem --seconds 1` as root to suspend the host to S3, then resume. (or `ehco mem >/sys/power/state` or `systemctl suspend` then wake manually)
7. Run `cont` in QEMU monitor to resume the guest.
8. Stop redirecting the smart card to the guest in remote-viewer.
9. Start redirecting the smart card to the guest in remote-viewer.
10. Run `gpg --card-status` in the guest.  Repeat if necessary.

Note that after step 7 the train has left the rails.  Executing `gpg --card-status` in the guest at this point would print:

    gpg: selecting card failed: no such device
    gpg: OpenPGP card not available: no such device

However, stopping and resuming redirection appears to be necessary to trigger the assertion failure.

Also note that on Windows, it's not necessary to execute any `gpg` commands.  QEMU will hit the assertion failure after step 9.
Additional information:
<details>
<summary>backtrace with version built from 2c3e83f92d</summary>

    Program terminated with signal SIGSEGV, Segmentation fault.
    #0  0x00005623c09a5754 in usb_handle_packet
        (dev=0x5623c3592500, p=p@entry=0x7f92e43c81c8) at ../hw/usb/core.c:441
    #1  0x00005623c09be239 in xhci_submit
        (epctx=<optimized out>, xfer=<optimized out>, xhci=<optimized out>)
        at ../hw/usb/hcd-xhci.c:1783
    #2  xhci_fire_transfer
        (epctx=<optimized out>, xfer=<optimized out>, xhci=<optimized out>)
        at ../hw/usb/hcd-xhci.c:1792
    #3  xhci_kick_epctx (epctx=0x7f92e43c7c30, streamid=0)
        at ../hw/usb/hcd-xhci.c:1951
    #4  0x00005623c09bea1b in xhci_kick_ep
        (xhci=<optimized out>, slotid=<optimized out>, epid=<optimized out>, streamid=<optimized out>) at ../hw/usb/hcd-xhci.c:1817
    #5  0x00005623c09bebd8 in xhci_doorbell_write
        (ptr=0x7f92ec137970, reg=1, val=4, size=<optimized out>)
        at ../hw/usb/hcd-xhci.c:3118
    #6  0x00005623c0abbc7f in memory_region_write_accessor
        (mr=mr@entry=0x7f92ec137ed0, addr=4, value=value@entry=0x7f92eda403e8, size=size@entry=4, shift=<optimized out>, mask=mask@entry=4294967295, attrs=...)
        at ../softmmu/memory.c:492
    #7  0x00005623c0ab953e in access_with_adjusted_size
        (addr=addr@entry=4, value=value@entry=0x7f92eda403e8, size=size@entry=4, access_size_min=<optimized out>, access_size_max=<optimized out>, access_fn=
        0x5623c0abbc00 <memory_region_write_accessor>, mr=0x7f92ec137ed0, attrs=...) at ../softmmu/memory.c:554
    #8  0x00005623c0abd650 in memory_region_dispatch_write
        (mr=mr@entry=0x7f92ec137ed0, addr=4, data=<optimized out>, op=<optimized out>, attrs=attrs@entry=...) at ../softmmu/memory.c:1511
    #9  0x00005623c0aad417 in flatview_write_continue
        (fv=fv@entry=0x7f92e43c7140, addr=addr@entry=4227932164, attrs=attrs@entry=..., ptr=ptr@entry=0x7f92ef17f028, len=len@entry=4, addr1=<optimized out>, l=<optimized out>, mr=0x7f92ec137ed0)
        at /home/kevin/tmp/qemu/include/qemu/host-utils.h:165
    #10 0x00005623c0ab09db in flatview_write
        (len=4, buf=0x7f92ef17f028, attrs=..., addr=4227932164, fv=0x7f92e43c7140)
        at ../softmmu/physmem.c:2820
    #11 address_space_write
        (as=<optimized out>, addr=4227932164, attrs=..., buf=buf@entry=0x7f92ef17f028, len=4) at ../softmmu/physmem.c:2912
    #12 0x00005623c0ab0a9f in address_space_rw
        (as=<optimized out>, addr=<optimized out>, attrs=..., 
        attrs@entry=..., buf=buf@entry=0x7f92ef17f028, len=<optimized out>, is_write=<optimized out>) at ../softmmu/physmem.c:2922
    #13 0x00005623c0ba2890 in kvm_cpu_exec (cpu=cpu@entry=0x5623c2729bc0)
        at ../accel/kvm/kvm-all.c:2893
    #14 0x00005623c0ba3bbd in kvm_vcpu_thread_fn (arg=arg@entry=0x5623c2729bc0)
        at ../accel/kvm/kvm-accel-ops.c:49
    #15 0x00005623c0d0a959 in qemu_thread_start (args=0x7f92eda40610)
        at ../util/qemu-thread-posix.c:557
    #16 0x00007f92fd431eae in start_thread (arg=0x7f92eda45640)
        at pthread_create.c:463
    #17 0x00007f92fca2fa5f in clone ()
        at ../sysdeps/unix/sysv/linux/x86_64/clone.S:95

</details>

Let me know if there are any additional logs or information that would be useful.

Thanks,\
Kevin